John R. Stark

The Archives

Articles, Editorials, Reflections & More.

A working archive of profiles, essays, and dispatches — the pieces I keep coming back to, and a few I probably shouldn't.

Purple Clover2024

My Dance With Mr. Bojangles

When I was a reporter at the S.F. Examiner in the late 1970s, I was assigned to write a feature about people who live and work at Lake Tahoe. Sammy Davis Jr., aka “the world’s greatest entertainer,” kept a residence there.

Next AvenueJuly 2013

Why Boomers Need to Ride Roller Coasters

Feeling down? They’ll take you to new heights, and then some! Three decades after crowning America’s scariest coaster for People, I strapped in again — at 64 — to find out if the thrill still held.

Purple CloverNovember 2013

You Don’t Make Old Friends

I didn’t realize how hard it was to meet new people until I had to try. A move from Boston to Minneapolis taught me what old friends really are — and why you can’t manufacture them at 60.

Purple CloverJuly 2017

Game of Thrones

“Are you the Jon Stark?” I get asked that question a lot. So before Season Seven premiered, I hunkered down in my own House of Stark for a 60-hour binge — in the name of professional survival.

HuffPost PersonalMarch 2019

I Had An Affair With My Straight, Married Neighbor. Then His Wife Emailed Me.

The email came from out of the blue a few months ago. It was from the wife of a man I had been secretly involved with. “How long did your affair with my husband last?” she demanded to know. “I’d like the date range of the years, please.”

The Desert Sun2024

The Truth About Piano Lessons

I wrote this satirical essay about healthy retirement for the Desert Sun on-line edition. I was in line at my neighborhood pharmacy when the man in front of me announced he was retiring in four days — and began rattling off his dreams. Dream on.

The Desert Sun2024

Personal Survey

I wrote this satirical essay about surveys for the Desert Sun on-line edition. Everywhere I go these days I get sent a customer-experience survey — so I’ve devised a short one of my own, to send to friends and colleagues after their time with me.